Getting married was always part of our plan — we just didn’t expect to do it from two different continents.
When you’re in a cross-border relationship, especially with military deployment, everything gets more complicated. Paperwork, travel restrictions, planning — even picking a date can feel overwhelming.
We wanted to start our life together. But a traditional wedding just wasn’t an option.
Then we found out we could have a legal virtual wedding.
At first, we thought it was only symbolic. But after researching, we learned that states like Utah allow fully virtual marriages — with a licensed officiant and official paperwork — and they’re recognized across the U.S..
We decided to go for it.
Here’s how it worked for us:
- We submitted our documents and filled out a quick form.
- We reserved our wedding time with an officiant who was licensed for online ceremonies.
- We invited our closest friends and family to join via Zoom.
- And when the day came, we connected to the ceremony, said our vows, and just like that — we were married.
I said “I do” from my living room. My partner said it from their military base.
It was unforgettable. It was simple. And it was ours.
The officiant walked us through the process. The ceremony was quick, but powerful. And we received our certified marriage certificate immediately — no courthouse, no plane tickets, no headaches.
Since then, we’ve used our online marriage to handle immigration documents, and every agency has recognized it — no issues at all.
If you’re dealing with distance, don’t wait. Online marriage is legal, and it’s a meaningful way to start your future — even if you’re not in the same place.
We’re proof that website marriage can happen anywhere — and that what matters most is the commitment.